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Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day.  It's strange how two words can stir up such a range of moods and emotions.  Romance, love, family, stress, panic, shame - all possible on Valentine's Day, especially if you procrastinate or plan poorly for the occasion.  Don't fret, we have the tools and advice you need to win at Valentine's Day this year, and give yourself a chance to actually enjoy the day.  

Card Writing

Valentine's Day Card Writing Tips

You have done everything to prepare for the perfect Valentine's Day.  You have dinner reservations, you have flowers, a nice gift, but you are still not quite sure what words to use to convey your message.  We have all been there, whether we're just not good with words, or we've exhausted every phrase to tell someone how we feel.  you:MoreThoughtful has your back with lots of idea starters for writing in your Valentine's card. 

Although using the first name is standard protocol for writing a Valentine's Day card, use your loved one's nickname (or another term of endearment) to instantly make a simple Valentine's wish feel warmer and more personal.

It isn't unheard of to give more than one card on Valentine's Day.  Something as simple as a sticky note on the bathroom mirror or a piece of paper from a notebook with a simple "I Love You" or "Be My Valentine" can be sweet, simple, and impactful.

Whatever you say, or advice you use to write in your loved one's Valentine's Day card, use words that come from the heart and sound like you.  Your card will be as meaningful as you want it to be and your sincerity will be touching.

Use the links to navigate writing tips for specific relationships in your life.

Ideas for writing a message in your wife's Valentine's Day card​

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She chose you to be her life-long companion.  She's the love of your life,  and Valentine's Day is one of few opportunities to let her know what she means to you.  She may have high expectations of you on Valentine's Day, but speaking directly from your heart is the way to tell her you love her.  Here are some ideas to get you started.

  • For as long as I live and even after that - I will be loving you fiercely.  Happy Valentine's Day Babe.

  • Every story of love is beautiful, but ours is my favorite.

  • You are the most important person in my life, I can't wait to celebrate our relationship tonight.

  • I'm so glad I have you in my life.

  • I get to love you every single day, and today I get to cherish you and our relationship.

  • You are my forever Valentine, and each year is better than the year before.

  • Any day where we are actually expected to make-out sounds like a great day to me.

Ideas for writing a message in your husband's Valentine's Day card​
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He is always there for you and he is your biggest fan, now is the time to let him know how lucky you are to have him for a husband on Valentine's Day and every day.  Use some of the ideas below to craft the perfect romantic message for him.

  • Happy Valentine’s Day — you’re my happily-ever-after, my forever love, and the hero of my heart. I love you.

  • I love doing life with you

  • You make me so happy, I'm glad you are mine on Valentine's Day and every day.

  • Happy Valentine's Day Baby

  • I don't tell you often enough so I supposed that Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity to remind you how much I love you.

  • You may never know how much I love you, but I will try to show you every day.

  • You are so beautiful

  • I love all the adventures we have together.  I can't wait for our next one.

  • Has it really been [X] years?  No question, I would do it all over again

  • You’re everything that I hoped for in a husband, and I couldn't be happier knowing we’re building a wonderful life together.

Ideas for closing your Valentine's Day card
Hand writing a thoughtful message in a Valentine's Day card.

You have planned well and executed for Valentines' Day.  You have thought through a gift and dinner, and you are all set to show the people in your life the love they deserve.  You've even written a beautiful message of love in their card.  Now apply the final touch by adding the perfect closing.  Here are some ideas:

  • All my love,

  • Love you,

  • All yours,

  • Forever yours,

  • Endlessly,

  • Passionately,

  • Truly,

  • Gratefully,

  • With all my heart,

  • Forever and Always,

  • Hugs and kisses,

  • Kisses,


  • Mmmmwah,

  • With all my love on Valentine’s Day and always,

  • Loving you fiercely,

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